{"id":1214047,"date":"2023-12-21T10:00:34","date_gmt":"2023-12-21T15:00:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.prime-wow.com\/?p=1214047"},"modified":"2023-12-21T10:00:34","modified_gmt":"2023-12-21T15:00:34","slug":"the-dos-and-donts-of-public-foreplay","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.prime-wow.com\/?p=1214047","title":{"rendered":"The Dos and Don'ts of Public Foreplay"},"content":{"rendered":"

When we talk about sex, some of the most widely-used euphemisms point to how private the act usually is. We refer to what we do \u201cbehind closed doors\u201d or \u201cin the bedroom.\u201d Naturally, then, the thought of taking the show on the road is taboo and sexy. Public play is a pretty common fantasy because it feels a little risky (and sometimes is<\/a>). You can bring it to life without going all the way to Pound Town by engaging in public foreplay\u2014but there\u2019s a respectful and safe way to do it. <\/p>\n

Getting frisky in public: How common is the fantasy?<\/h2>\n

It\u2019s hard to know exactly how common the sex-in-public fantasy really is, but 2018 research suggests<\/a> that novelty and adventure are elements of the third most common fantasy genre for Americans, right behind threesomes and BDSM. For what it\u2019s worth, while working on this article, every time I tried to Google for information, I mostly got links to porn, where there are tons of staged upskirt videos of women on buses and clips of performers banging while seemingly unsuspecting friends and family are mere feet away.<\/p>\n

Because we live in a capitalist society, we can gauge the popularity of this fantasy in a more money-minded way. If people didn\u2019t want to take their play out into the real world, we wouldn\u2019t be able to buy wearable toys<\/a> designed to be tucked discreetly into our undies and controlled by an app on a partner\u2019s phone, would we? <\/p>\n

Ways to engage in public foreplay<\/h2>\n

Ultimately, it doesn\u2019t really matter how common the fantasy is. You\u2019re here looking for information, so it\u2019s important to at least one person and that\u2019s what counts. The issue with fantasies is they can be abstract or too complicated. There are easy ways to implement public foreplay into your sex life without orchestrating overly complex scenarios.<\/p>\n

I spoke to Amanda, aka \u201cThe Kink Consultant,\u201d a sex and relationship coach, about ways you and your partner can pull this off on your next night out. Here are a few tips:<\/p>\n